Sexuality Demystified: Debunking Common Myths for a Fulfilling Sex Life

Sexuality Demystified: Debunking Common Myths for a Fulfilling Sex Life

Sexuality is a cornerstone of the human experience, encompassing a rich tapestry of emotions, desires, and expressions. Yet, for all its importance, misconceptions and outdated beliefs often cloud our understanding. These myths can lead to unnecessary anxieties, unhealthy behaviours, and difficulty forming fulfilling sexual relationships. Let’s delve deeper and debunk some of the most common myths surrounding it. Myth #1: Sexuality is Solely About Pleasure and reproduction This myth paints physical intimacy as a one-dimensional act solely focused on orgasm or reproduction. While achieving pleasure and creating a family are important aspects, sex can encompass a much wider range of emotions and experiences. It can be a powerful tool for expressing love, intimacy, and a deep sense of connection.  can also be a source of stress relief, emotional bonding, and a journey of self-discovery. Imagine sex as a spectrum, with procreation and intense pleasure at opposite ends. In the vast middle lie a multitude of possibilities for shared experiences that enhance your well-being and connection with your partner(s). Myth #2: There’s a “Normal” Sexual Frequency The pressure to conform to a mythical “normal” frequency can be immense. But the truth is, there’s no magic number when it comes to how often a couple should have sex. Many factors influence sexual frequency, including age, overall health, stress levels, and the unique dynamics of your relationship. As long as both partners are content and fulfilled with the level of sexual intimacy, the frequency doesn’t matter. Communication and open discussion are crucial to navigating individual needs and desires. Don’t be afraid to have honest conversations about your wants and preferences; a healthy sexual life thrives on open communication. Myth #3: Size Matters (a lot) This myth often fuels anxieties, particularly for men, about penis size. While some partners may have preferences, research suggests that overall satisfaction with sex is less about size and more about technique, communication, and the emotional connection between partners. There are many ways to achieve pleasure during sex, and focusing solely on penis size can detract from other aspects of intimacy. Exploring different positions, learning about external stimulation techniques, and prioritising communication can significantly enhance sexual satisfaction for both partners. Size may play a role, but it’s far from the only factor. Myth #4: Virginity Defines Your Worth The concept of virginity, particularly for women, is a social construct with no biological basis. It often leads to feelings of shame and inadequacy, and it’s important to remember that virginity doesn’t define your worth. Sexual history is just one aspect of a person, and it is a choice you make. Choosing to wait or not to wait is a personal decision that deserves respect. Focus on finding partners who value you for who you are, not the choices you’ve made. Myth #5: Oral Sex is Risk-Free While it’s true that oral sexual activities carries a lower risk of pregnancy compared to vaginal sex, it’s not entirely risk-free for sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Proper protection, like dental dams or condoms, significantly reduces the risk of STI transmission during oral sex. Open communication with your partner about sexual health and STI testing is crucial for safe and enjoyable oral sex. Discuss your comfort levels with different acts and utilise protection to ensure a healthy and pleasurable experience for all partners. Myth #6: The “Pull-Out” Method is Reliable Birth Control The “pull-out” method, also known as coitus interruptus, is highly unreliable. Sperm can be present in pre-ejaculate fluid, which can lead to pregnancy even before ejaculation occurs. This method is not only ineffective but also increases anxiety during sex. For dependable birth control, consider a variety of options like condoms, birth control pills, IUDs, or other methods that have been proven to be highly effective in preventing pregnancy. Discuss your options with a healthcare professional to find the best birth control method for your needs. Myth #7: You Can’t Get Pregnant if You’re On Your Period While it’s less likely, pregnancy during menstruation is still possible. Sperm can survive in the female reproductive system for several days. Additionally, menstrual cycles can vary, and ovulation may occur earlier or later than expected. If you’re sexually active and don’t want to get pregnant, use birth control consistently, even during your period. Myth #8: LGBTQ+ sexualities are “unnatural.” Sexual orientation and gender identity exist on a spectrum, and being LGBTQ+ is a natural variation of human sexual orientation. Being attracted to the same sex, identifying with a gender different from your assigned sexual orientation at birth, or having a non-binary gender identity are all valid and deserve respect. It’s important to educate yourself and challenge homophobic and transphobic biases by understanding the vast spectrum of human sexual orientation. Studies continue to explore the biological and social factors that influence sexual orientation and gender identity, but one thing is clear: LGBTQ+ identities are not a choice and deserve acceptance and understanding. Myth #9: You Can “Turn” Someone Gay or Straight Sexual orientation is not a choice. Attempts to change someone’s sexual orientation through therapy or conversion programs are not only ineffective but also harmful. These programs can lead to depression, anxiety, and self-esteem issues. Sexual orientation is a fundamental aspect of a person’s identity, and efforts to change it are disrespectful and damaging. Myth #10: Certain Body Types are More Desirable Beauty standards are subjective and constantly evolving. The media often portrays a limited and unrealistic image of sexual attractiveness, fueling insecurities and anxieties about body image. A healthy body image and self-acceptance are far more important than conforming to narrow standards of beauty. Focus on finding partners who appreciate you for who you are, both inside and out. Celebrate your unique qualities and embrace your body; confidence and self-love are universally attractive. The Road to Healthy Sexual Instincts: Building a Foundation for Fulfilment Debunking these myths is just the first step on the path towards a healthy and fulfilling sexual life. Here’s how to build a strong foundation for sexual well-being: Communication is key. Open

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 SOIE Celebrates World Menstrual Day with an Educational Event

SOIE Celebrates World Menstrual Day with an Educational Event

About SOIE: SOIE (pronounced as SWA) is a premier lingerie brand offering a range of premium to basic lingerie, activewear, and swimwear for women. Established in 2011, SOIE, which has grown to over 1000 multi-brand stores with a strong social media and e-commerce presence, is committed to empowering women and celebrating femininity through its collections. Offering the best fit, style and luxury at honest prices and allowing women to exude refinement and confidence, SOIE makes women feel beautiful inside and out every day. Quality and social responsibility are important to SOIE. As an example of their dedication to giving back and fostering healthy social development, the company donates 2% of their revenues to tribal education projects. SOIE Celebrates World Menstrual Day with an Educational Event and Sustainable Sanitary Pads Distribution in Partnership with Kamakhya With World Menstrual Day right around the corner, SOIE, a leading lingerie brand from Ginza Industries Ltd., in association with Kamakhya, a social enterprise dedicated to empowering women, hosted a menstrual hygiene educational event at its Surat Factory in Sachin. The event focused on raising awareness about menstrual hygiene and empowering women through informative and personalised sessions, along with the distribution of sustainable sanitary pads to a large chunk of their female workforce at the factory. The event featured informative sessions from Kamakhya experts, who provided valuable insights on menstrual hygiene and dispelled common myths, stigmas and stereotypes surrounding menstruation. Following the informative session, there was a Q&A period where women could ask the experts questions. SOIE, as a responsible brand and employer with 70% female workforce, additionally ensured opportunities for brief one-on-one discussions for a good number of their employees to address personal queries and concerns in regards to this subject. On this educational initiative, Amrit Sethia, VP at Ginza Industries Ltd., said, To build an inclusive and diverse culture, it is important to have a sensitive workforce that is aware of their rights and bodies and takes effort to educate themselves. As a women-oriented brand, at SOIE, we recognise the importance of promoting menstrual hygiene and providing essential education and resources to women. Hence, our initiatives are dedicated to making a mark in the lives of women’s communities, thereby contributing in a distinguished way to society. Our collaboration with Kamakhya for this educational event is not only a step towards addressing menstrual concerns but also empowering our female employees by creating a supportive work environment. In addition to the educational sessions, SOIE will distribute sustainable sanitary pads to countless female employees, furthering its dedication to promoting menstrual health and well-being. About Kamakhya: Kamakhya, a social enterprise founded in 2019, is dedicated to promoting menstrual hygiene and empowering women through education and access to sustainable menstrual products. Formed by a dedicated team of doctors, professionals, and entrepreneurs, Kamakhya launched on January 12, 2020, introducing two pioneering social products for women: creating a long-lasting and one-stop destination for females and creating awareness for women’s health, hygiene and environment in India. Over time, Kamakhya has adapted its approach to address the diverse cultural contexts it encounters, evolving organically to meet the various needs of the women it serves. About Ginza Industries Ltd: Ginza Industries Ltd., founded in 1986, is a leading textile company in India with a significant presence in Maharashtra and Gujarat. It has evolved from a pioneer in the apparel and components business to a comprehensive textile solutions provider, manufacturing over 10,000 products and employing over 4,000 people. Ginza offers a diverse range of products, including Raschel, warp-knitted fabrics, laces (as the largest supplier in India), elastics, weft knits, and embroidery. The Ginzapan-India distribution network has eight sales offices and a highly skilled support staff, which are both supported by strategic backward integration and continuous innovation. Renowned for its product quality and competitive pricing, Ginza boasts a loyal clientele in domestic and international markets, including the US and Europe, serving as a preferred vendor for numerous notable brands. Its capable leadership and expert consultants ensure that Ginza stays ahead of market dynamics, maintaining its industry dominance.

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 Menstrual Hygiene Day: Menstrual cup, PMS & taboo: Let’s talk. Period.

Menstrual Hygiene Day: Menstrual cup, PMS & taboo: Let’s talk. Period.

Menstrual Hygiene Day, marked on May 28 is mainly observed  to talk about social stigma associated with menstruation. This year the theme of the day is “Action and Investment in Menstrual Hygiene and Health.” Fun fact about why May 28 was marked as the World Menstrual Hygiene Day. On an average the menstrual cycle for most women is 28 days and the menstruation period for most women is for five days. Hence 28/5 is marked as the World Menstrual Hygiene Day. In an exclusive conversation with The Style.World, Dr Sana Fathima MBBS, (MD) Pathology explains how menstruation is not the problem but not being unaware is. Our expert takes you through the A-Z guide for menstruation and talks about the journey towards a healthier mind, body and soul during your cycle. So get ready to talk about menstruation. Period. What is Menstruation? Menstruation is a natural, normal biological process experienced by all adolescent girls and women. As per the definition of the World Health Organization (WHO) menstruation is the periodic blood that flows as a discharge from the uterus. The menses occurs at approximately 4-week intervals to compose the menstrual cycle. Why does it happen?  The inner lining of the uterus i.e the endometrium grows and is maintained by hormones for the implantation of the embryo in case fertilization occurs. When fertilization doesn’t occur the endometrium is shed off along with the unfertilized egg and blood through the vaginal orifice Are you PMS-ing? Relax! Premenstrual syndrome (PMS) is a condition that affects most menstruating women. It happens due to changes in hormones during the menstrual cycle. Symptoms include mood swings, tender breasts, food cravings, fatigue, irritability and depression. So what can you do when you PMS?                  As per Dr Sana, you really have to take it easy, talk to friends and family, eat well, include mild exercises, chomp on some of your favorite chocolates, get enough sleep. In case of experiencing pain use hot water therapy for cramps. If the pain seems severe consult your doctor for medication. Period products: The pads, the tampons and the cups When you are on your periods, you will require material to soak up the menstrual blood like cloth pads, disposable sanitary napkins, tampons and menstrual cups are commonly used. With so many products out there, you might have to pick what is right for you and experiment with a few as well. All you need to know about Tampons and Menstrual cups  People are familiar with disposable and cloth pads which are the most commonly used material for periods in our country but there is a lot of dilemma around tampons and menstrual cups. Let’s stop juggling and find out.  So what are Tampons?  A tampon is one of the feminine hygiene products designed to absorb the menstrual flow by insertion into the vagina during menstruation. It is placed internally, inside the vaginal canal. Once inserted correctly, a tampon is held in place by the vagina and expands as it soaks up menstrual blood. The tampons should be disposed of every 4-8 hours to prevent infection and shock Menstrual Cups  A menstrual cup is a  feminine hygiene device inserted into the vagina during menstruation. Its purpose is to collect menstrual fluid (blood from uterine lining) and prevent its leaking onto clothes. A single cup can replace thousands of pads and tampons. It is eco-friendly, it will leave you with no dryness and unlike pads, you don’t have to worry about changing frequently. About Menstrual Abnormalities Dysmenorrhea – increased pain. Menorrhagia- increased bleeding. PCOD / PCOS What can you do if you suffer from Menstrual abormalities?         Lose weight Eat healthily Exercise regularly Contraceptive pills after consulting your gynecologist. Medications for excess hair growth, diabetes and Infertility. Period friendly workplaces: Need of the hour Apart from awareness of menstruation Dr. Sana Fathima stresses the need of having more and more period friendly workplaces According to Dr. Fathima, at the end of the day, creating a period-friendly workplace is not only the right thing to do and something which ultimately helps the company’s bottom line; it also sends a message that an employee’s well-being is thought about and valued. Here’s what comprises a period friendly workplace  Provide free period products   Contribute to managing the stress of your employees  Educate and create awareness  Provide more bathrooms  Provide menstrual leave Menstrual Hygiene Day: Menstrual cup, PMS & taboo: Let’s talk. Period.

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